A lot of relationships that I have dealt with are missing a big ingredient when it comes to lasting for a long time. The key is love, and people are always thinking that they are missing it. But love isn’t something you can really miss, its there when its there, and you know it, and its not there, and you will know it as well. But its the most important thing to keep in mind, that when a relationship has love it will last forever and continue to be strong. This does not mean you won’t be getting into arguments and everything else other couples get into all the time, but when you do it will never be strong enough to pull you apart.
Really that is the best way to have a relationship that lasts, everyone feels its existence and they have had a taste of it before many times. You can find it, and you will find it, it simply takes time, and at the right moment you will find that person.